Culinary Adventures with Redmond
by lovelysimply
I think I have mentioned this before, but the only book I read when I was pregnant was Bringing up Bebe. I absolutely loved it, seeing as I’m an American girl who likes style and food, and clearly I am obsessed with all things French. Am I right? We followed the sleep advice in this book (with some additions of our own– I promise I’ll write about this soon.) and it worked incredibly well. Redmond was sleeping seven hours straight by about six weeks, and he’s been doing eleven to twelve hours straight since he was three months old. So, with that success, I am obviously taking the books baby food advice to heart.
Now here’s the thing. According to the book, the majority of Parisians do the same general thing with their babies. This really would cut down on the mom guilt and mom judgment that is consistently ladled onto us here in the Land of the Free where we have so many options to the way in which we wish to raise our children. This comes with pros and cons obviously. It’s great to be able to explore Baby led Weaning, or exclusive nursing past twelve months, or baby cereal, or homemade baby food, or…well, you get the point. BUT it’s easy to fall into the idea that your way is the best way. I try to remind myself regularly that my way is only the best way for me and my baby. Because that is the thing. Whatever you choose to do, as long as you are a happy wife/mom/girlfriend/woman and your little one is happy and healthy as well, then that’s the best thing.
Ok. I think I have safely managed to avoid all opportunity for criticism (can you tell I’m super sensitive? Cause I am. Cruel words make me crumble) and we can continue.
I really want Redmond to be a good eater. I spent my childhood in Thailand and was exposed to all kinds of different foods, and while I obviously had my preferences, I had to try lots of things I was scared of because it was considered rude to refuse food, even for children. I am not terribly courageous when it comes to exotic meats…my husband will LITERALLY EAT ANYTHING. When we last visited my dad and stepmom in Chiangmai, Nick was pounding the raw squirrel meat and Grub spread. I kid you not. Me? Not so much. But I am always eager to try new cuisines. And I want Redmond to have that same curiosity and not subsist on the dreaded Mono Diet.
Bringing Up Bebe advised that we start our baby on vegetables. So far I’ve made all of his meals and haven’t had to buy jarred food. We also haven’t given him rice cereal. Although there is NOTHING wrong with that– I happen to know a little girl who started on the cereal, and she is an amazing eater. But the Parisians don’t do it and goodness, let us be Parisian or die. Plus I’m real cheap, and making Reds food at home saves us the dollar dollar bills yo. Also, as the control freak that I am, I get to keep track of everything I put into his meals. If you have the time, it doesn’t take a lot of effort.
I try to introduce new flavors to him every few days. Last week I did sour kiwi, and this week I’m doing curry. If you gals (and guys.) like this, I’ll post some recipes every few weeks. I adore cooking. It is a love language for me, and something that reminds me of my mom, who was a wonderful home cook. I helped her in the kitchen from the time I could sit on the counter. And I’ll be honest, as much as I HATE THE INEVITABLE PASSING OF TIME and want Redmond to sloooooow down, I am real excited for when he can help me out too.
Anyway. Redmond eats one meal (dinner, with us) and nurses five to six times throughout the day. If I’m cooking or cleaning and he is sitting in his little chair, I’ll put soft foods on his tray for him to “feed” himself. Usually banana or boiled root veggies. I keep super tabs on this because he still is mastering swallowing, so I never ever leave him alone with food.
At dinner, we feed him purees. I use my magic bullet to make his meals, but you could use any blender I think. This is the longest post ever so I’m going to shut up and leave the recipes. Au revoir!
Beet-Carrot-Coconut-Curry
1/4 cup chopped beets
1/4 cup chopped carrots
2 tbs coconut milk
a pinch of sweet curry powder
Boil the beets and carrots until they are very soft. Add them to your blender with the coconut milk and the curry. Puree until completely smooth. Refrigerate or freeze. Makes 3 servings.
Kiwi-Banana-Chia-Oats
1/4 cup oats (I accidentally bought quick oats, so that is what I used)
1/2 cup water
1 sliced kiwi
1 tsp chia seed
1/4 cup sliced banana
2 tbs liquid (breastmilk or other)
Boil the water, and then add the oats, kiwi, and chia seeds. Cook until thickened. Add to your blender with the banana and liquid. Puree until very smooth. Makes 4 servings.
This week I’m making a sweet potato-ginger curry and a broccoli-parsley “soup”. I’ll let you know if they’re a hit! Happy cooking!
What does your baby love to eat? And what book did you take to heart while pregnant (or after.)
I still haven’t read Bringing Up Bebe, but this is basically the route we went with Alice too. At four months we started her on pureed veggies, followed by fruits. Now, she eats whatever we eat, including Jake’s hot sauces. She is an incredible eater- tries everything- and is also a really good chewer because of it too. She’s never choked on anything and I don’t have to fuss at cutting things up for her. She’s developed an independent attitude around meal time- using utensils completely by about 6 months, eating whole bananas solo, etc.- and we’ve never bought “baby food,” (because, as you wrote, $$). All that said, I’m totally on board with parents just following their gut and their baby’s needs. My motto: this is what worked for us, but I’m only an expert on me and my baby- not you or yours! xoxo
I can lend you the book, though with one baby successfully in toddlerdom, you are a pro. Redmond loves to pretend to choke though… Which makes me constantly nervous
Love this! I also only read Bringing up Bebe when I was pregnant haha! And I was also very intrigued when I learned of baby led weaning. So far I’ve let my little kiddo gum a banana and an apple slice. For purees I tried carrots for his first food but he didn’t like them and we only got a few bites in. I will try them again once he is more used to eating things. we have also done a little rice cereal mixed with banana (so far bananas are his favorite thing) and a tiny bit of applesauce (unsweetened, so it was a bit tart) and he likes those things. Today if I can ever get him to nap, when he wakes up we’re going to try butternut squash. Haha. I am both excited about and not looking forward to beginning solids because it’s kind of a pain in the ass but it’s also the start of my freedom to choose whatever clothes I want again. Anyway love the recipes! I’d definitely try them for little fox so I’ll be back to this post in a couple months when he’s more on the solids train!
Redmond definitely goes through ups and downs with food. This week he has a tooth coming in and has been barely eating anything. I agree, food is a pain, but I can’t wait till I can give him a snack/meal when we are out and not have to retreat to nurse him since he is so distract able now and can’t focus on nursing in public.
These recipes sound great! I’m definitely sending my sister the link to save. She’s only pregnant so probably doesn’t need to start worrying about recipes quite yet, ha.
Haha now quite yet but it’s fun to get prepared for it early! So exciting to be getting a new niece or nephew! Does she know the gender??
I love the combos of purées you came up with! When did you start solids? I was going to wait till my baby turned 6 months but my pediatrician said they now recommend introducing them at 4 months! Which totally goes against everything I’ve read. Also I’ve read Bringing up Bebe twice because I love it so much but Le Pause only works for so long in my house! The longer I take to go in there the more he screams. Grr! I was not blessed with any easy sleeper!
It sort of up to what you feel/baby size I think. Redmond has been big since birth, so I started giving him purées now and then once he hit four month. We didn’t start giving him solids ever day on a schedule until he was just under 6 months. And now that he’s nearing 7 months I’m starting to give him something to self feed in the morning after he nurses. And I agree with le pause–it worked great for us when he was just fussing but if he wants a diaper change/wanted to nurse, I’d always get up cause us moms know when it’s more than just a “I am going back to sleep” fuss. And Redmond totally indulges in screams when I put him down for his nap haha. easy sleeper AND easy napper would be too much to hope for 😩